Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts

Saturday, December 30, 2017

Word.

Timing and trying to get some small details from the remodeling finished up, I didn’t put up a tree or the decorated garland this year. Oh, I intended to and I did put up some decorations, and received a great “Merry Christmas” banner from my husband as an early gift, which filled up the peak in the vaulted ceiling beautifully.   I ooohhhed and aaaahhhhed over ornaments in shops, and even purchased a couple that struck me as special in some way.  Now, I have spent the last couple days packing up holiday decorations to be stored away.  I admired each small decoration as I placed it in the tote, saying a silent “thanks and see you later”.  I gave the house a “once over” this morning, my eye searching out that one decoration that didn’t make it back into the tote.  There’s always one, one that you notice in February or so, long after your husband has lugged totes heavy with glitter and pine up into the attic.
 
Originally, this post was headed in a completely different direction, my intention being to write of the holidays, of family, of friends, of celebrations.  But, today, I find myself reflecting on the year a bit differently, and with a different theme running through my head.  That’s the weird thing about writing, it can ~ and believe it ~ have a mind of its own.
 
I came across an advertisement on Facebook (there’s THAT again) for a company that wants you to pick a word as a goal, or an accomplishment or desire and then hammer that word into a metal circle, okay, a washer and then fashion a piece of jewelry. Now I am not big on wearing a washer around my wrist or neck on a piece of leatherette but, the idea is fun, and it’s just that it isn’t my style, not that they aren’t cute.  As I reviewed the ad, I wondered if I had a word.  Some pieces they featured offered the usual “courage” “hope” “faith”.
 
Oh, the word I would choose. I thought about my focus of 2017.  Family? Lake? Grandkids? Joy? All of these.  How many words can fit on a brass washer? Can I really only pick one word? Maybe I need more than one bracelet? After all, the word I choose today may not be my word tomorrow. Then what? Perhaps Procrastination would be a good choice for me.  Indecisiveness.   If Joy was my word for 2017…and I finally sort of narrowed it down to Joy…then my word for 2018 would be – what?

I thought about ALL my words.  I have too many words, woven together over the course of my days and are more like a weaving than a washer. Cloth to make a fine garment, a cloak or cape to envelope me, and to introduce me, and yes, to protect me.  2018 is soon to be added to my weaving, to my coat, and one of the words that will guide me, I hope, is INTENT.

Good 2018 to you.  Make it soar.  


Monday, July 21, 2014

Too soon?

I am sure everyone gets here…this place where you sense things are going to be much different moving forward, and try to prepare for it.  Try to think about it a bit, try, maybe, to hang on to some of the past but also plan for the new.
  
I have been thinking about Christmas.  My mother-in-law passed away earlier this year and although we stopped going over for a big gift exchange a couple years back, we did try to do a Christmas-time brunch with everyone.   She could not really participate the way she used to, cranking out a batch of coffee cakes, rolls and breakfast casseroles for us all, but her daughter sure did her proud and produced some great breakfasts for us the last couple years.  We have gathered at this big kitchen for many years a couple weeks before Christmas to bake cookies together.  Have we seen the last cookie?

What do we do now?  I know it’s time to start new traditions, but what are those traditions? I am used to the old ones! I like the old ones!  I am not sure where I am suppose to go, or if I am to stay home.  A couple years ago we did stay home, alone, on Christmas Day, and let me tell you, it sucked.  I told hubs that would not happen again, as long as I could be somewhere, especially if a grandchild was involved.  We’ve had a couple of perilous drives since then but have been with kids/grandkids on Christmas Day, usually arriving mid-morning and staying a day or two.
 
I wondered about the every other year thing but both my girls wish to stay home on Christmas morning with their families.  This year, youngest daughter will be WAY pregnant on Christmas Day, so she should be home! Besides that, son and daughter-in-law, in a different city, also need to make plans with her family so I need to be considerate of that as well.

Is it too selfish, too decadent, to escape to a tropical location on Christmas? It’s on the list.